Iyini incazelo yokubona irayisi ephusheni?

UMyrna Shewil
2022-07-05T15:11:37+02:00
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- Indawo yaseGibhithe

Ilayisi ephusheni ngomunye wemibono ebonwa abantu abaningi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi omdala noma omncane, nezincazelo zalo ziyahlukahluka futhi ziyehluka ngokweminyaka nesimo somphuphi.Funda le migqa elandelayo.  

Ukuhunyushwa kwerayisi ephusheni

  • Uma umboni ephupha ukuthi udla izitsha eziningi zerayisi, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzothola imali.
  • Lapho isoka liphupha lidla irayisi, futhi empeleni lalinenkinga yemali, lokhu kusho ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzomnikeza imali ngenxa yokukhathala nomzamo weminyaka ehlushwa ubunzima. .
  • Ukubona irayisi ephuzi ephusheni kuyisixwayiso sokugula kanye nezingxabano eziningi nezinkinga umphuphi ozowela kuzo, futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuzombangela imizwa eminingi yokucindezeleka nokucindezeleka.
  • Owesifazane ongashadile ofuna ukushada ngokweqiniso, futhi wabona ukuthi wayedla ilayisi elihlanzekile elingenakho ukungcola, njengoba lokhu kuwubufakazi bomshado wakhe nendoda enhle.
  • Indlala lapho umphuphi azizwayo yisixwayiso sobumpofu nokuntuleka kwemali, futhi uma edla irayisi ebuthongweni bakhe futhi ezwa egcwele ngemva kwalokho, lokhu kuwubufakazi bobuningi bemali kanye nokwanda kwenzuzo ezinsukwini ezizayo.
  • Izinhlamvu zelayisi ephusheni ziwubufakazi bokuziphilisa, ngakho-ke uma izinhlamvu zelayisi zazimbalwa, zazibonisa ukudla okuncane noma okulinganiselwe. Ngokuqondene nezinhlamvu eziningi zelayisi ephusheni lomphuphi, ziwubufakazi bemali echichimayo, kodwa inqobo nje uma izinhlamvu zerayisi aziphukile, zinezinundu, noma ziphuzi ngombala, khona-ke kufanele zibe mhlophe Ngokugqamile, zingabibikho ukungcola noma izimbotshana.
  • Ilayisi ephusheni liwubufakazi bokuzala, ikakhulukazi uma umboni ehlushwa ukulangazelela okukhulu kwezingane.Ukubona ukudla irayisi ephusheni kuqinisekisa ukuthi umboni uzoba nezingane.
  • Owesifazane oshadile odla irayisi elimhlophe ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuthenga kwakhe izinto eziningi ezibizayo.
  • Umuntu oqongelela irayisi ephusheni lakhe kuwubufakazi bekhono lakhe eliphezulu lezomnotho ekugcineni imali nokuyitshala ezintweni ezibalulekile ezimlethela inzuzo nenzuzo, hhayi ngokumosha imali nokuqothuka.
  • Ukudla inyama nelayisi ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokudla okuphindwe kabili, okusho ukuthi uma owesifazane ongashadile ofuna ukushada empeleni ebona ukuthi udla izingcezu zenyama ezimnandi nelayisi elivuthiwe, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bomshado wakhe maduzane, kodwa uma akacabangi ngomshado, ngakho-ke lo mbono uhloselwe impumelelo empilweni yakhe.Inqubo kanye nokuwina kwakhe imali eningi lapho ezokwazi ukuzenzela ikusasa.
  • Isihlahla somsedari ephusheni siwubufakazi bokuphumelela kwesivumelwano noma iphrojekthi lapho umphuphi ebeka khona imali eningi, kodwa kufanele aqinisekiswe; Ngoba lowo mbono ubonisa impumelelo yale phrojekthi eqinisweni, kodwa esimweni sokufa noma ukubuna kwesihlahla somsedari, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umboni angase aphelelwe ithemba ngokuthile empilweni yakhe, futhi lokhu kuphelelwa ithemba kwaqeda amandla akhe, futhi ekugcineni ngeke akwazi ukukuthola.
  • Ilayisi elihlaza ephusheni liwubufakazi bempumelelo nenjabulo lowo umboni ozozizwa phakathi nenkathi ezayo.  

Isayithi elikhethekile laseGibhithe elihlanganisa iqembu labahumushi abakhulu bamaphupho nemibono emhlabeni wama-Arab.

Ilayisi ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile

  • Ilayisi ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile inzuzo noma imali evela ngendlela esemthethweni, uma eyisisebenzi futhi ebona ukuthi udla irayisi ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzothola umvuzo obalulekile wezinto ezibonakalayo emsebenzini wakhe ngenxa yalokho. ukukhuthala kwakhe.” Kodwa uma wayengumama wekhaya futhi ebona ukuthi udla irayisi elimhlophe ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuwubufakazi, nokho-ke uNkulunkulu uzonikeza umyeni wakhe imali eningi, futhi uyosakaza ukuphakela nobuhle kubo bonke. bona.  
  • Uma owesifazane oshadile edla irayisi ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzoba nokuzinza nokuphila okungenazo iziphazamiso noma izinkinga ezingamvimba ukuthi azizwe ejabule nomyeni wakhe nezingane.
  • Ukudla owesifazane oshadile nomyeni wakhe esitsheni esisodwa selayisi kuwubufakazi bokuthi bayohlala ndawonye ukuphila nempilo ende ngenjabulo nothando.
  • Ukupheka irayisi ephusheni owesifazane oshadile kuyisembozo kanye nobuhle obungenamkhawulo.
  • Ngokubona umama osekhulile ukuthi indodana yakhe engakashadi idla ipuleti lerayisi, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi le nsizwa izohlinzekwa ngezinto ezimbili zokuziphilisa, eyokuqala imali yokuzikhandla, kanti eyesibili ingoduso enezinto eziningi eziyithandayo. nezimfanelo.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona irayisi nobisi ephusheni

  • Ukudla izitsha eziningi zelayisi ngobisi kuwuphawu lwenhlanhla kulowo ophuphayo, ikakhulukazi uma ehlupheka iminyaka eminingana elandelanayo ngenxa yeshwa.  
  • Ukupheka irayisi ngobisi ngobuningi kuwubufakazi bokuthi umboni uzokwenza iphrojekthi noma isikhungo, futhi lesi sikhungo sizoba nabantu abangaphezu koyedwa abazosebenza kuso.
  • Lapho umphuphi ebona ukuthi upheka irayisi ngobisi, bese ebeka isikhunta, futhi ephusheni esakaza abantu nabajwayele, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzokwenza umsebenzi omningi wokupha angalindele lutho kuwo. , kodwa lento uzokwenza ngothando, futhi akasoze azisola.
  • Ukubona umphuphi ukuthi wayedla epuleti lelayisi nobisi, kodwa ipuleti lachitheka kulo, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bobubi nokuphuthelwa amathuba noma ukulahlekelwa okuzokwehlela umphuphi.
  • Uma irayisi iphekwe ebisi ephusheni bese ifakwa kuhhavini, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi uzoba nemali eningi ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu.
  • Lapho umuntu ongashadile ebona ukuthi udla ipuleti elikhulu lelayisi elinobisi, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokugcwaliseka kwesifiso esikhulu kunazo zonke ekuphileni kwakhe, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi wayefuna ukudla irayisi eliningi nobisi, kodwa akatholanga. noma yini ukwanelisa isisusa sakhe sokulamba, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ufuna ukuzuza okuthile ekuphileni kwakhe.Iqiniso, kodwa leyo nto idinga umsebenzi nokukhuthala okwengeziwe, ngakho-ke kuthatha isikhathi esengeziwe ukuze umbonisi akufeze.
  • Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ukuthi umyeni wakhe udla irayisi nobisi ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokuthi ungumyeni othembekile emizweni yakhe kuye futhi kude nokukhaphela nobuqili.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nelayisi nobisi

  • Ukukhathazeka ngokudla irayisi nobisi ephusheni kuwubufakazi bokukhathazeka okuningi okuzokwenza lowo ophuphayo angakwazi ukuzithwala futhi angakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zokuphila ngokujwayelekile.
  • Kodwa uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ephusheni wayedla irayisi nobisi, ngenkathi ejabulela futhi ejabule, futhi lizwakala limnandi kakhulu ephusheni kangangokuthi wazizwa esuthi, futhi esalidla, khona-ke lowo mbono ubonisa ukuphana okuchichimayo kwethu. INkosi kumboni ukuthi Izomnxephezela ngezinsuku ezinzima zokuphila kanye nezimo zenyama ezikhathazayo.
  • Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi ephusheni lakhe uphethe isidlo selayisi ngobisi, futhi ngokuzumayo yaphenduka futhi yaba yomile, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi umphuphi uzobhekana nobunzima obuningi phakathi nezinsuku ezizayo ezizomenza aphelelwe amandla futhi akhathele.
  • Ilayisi elinobisi ephusheni liwubufakazi bobuhle, futhi uma indoda eshadile ibona ukuthi ipheka irayisi ngobisi ngokwayo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ungumuntu ohluphekayo ukuze ajabulise umndeni wakhe, futhi ngempela uzokwazi. ukuze abathokozise ngenala yemali azoyiphiwa.
  • Umama uphekela izingane zakhe irayisi ngobisi ephusheni kuwubufakazi bempilo ewubukhazikhazi azoyiphila yena nezingane zakhe.
  • Ukungakwazi komphuphi ukudla irayisi nobisi ephusheni, noma ukungakwazi ukugwinya, kuwubufakazi bokuthi akakwazi ukubekezelela ubunzima azobhekana nabo maduze.
  • Uma irayisi ixubene nobisi ngothuli noma amatshe ephusheni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuhlukana phakathi kombonisi nabathandekayo bakhe maduzane, kungaba ngokuhamba noma ukufa kwelungu lomndeni.
  • Ukunikeza owesifazane ongashadile insizwa eyazi ephusheni lakhe ipuleti lelayisi nobisi futhi alithathe kuye alidle liphelele, lokhu kuwubufakazi bomshado osheshayo phakathi kwakhe nale nsizwa.

Imithombo:-

1- Incwadi ethi Muntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, Dar al-Ma'rifah edition, Beirut 2000. 2- Isichazamazwi Sokuhunyushwa Kwamaphupho, u-Ibn Sirin kanye noSheikh Abd al-Ghani al-Nabulsi, uphenyo olwenziwa nguBasil Baridi, uhlelo lwe-Al-Safaa Library, Abu Dhabi 2008.

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